I (mostly) cut obscenities out
Over the past few years, I made the decision to cut obscenities out of my speech. You might remember me cursing four or five years ago, but as of now, I stand by my decision. Obscenities are the linguistic equivalent of a trashy, emaciated person entirely decked in tattoos, smoking cigarettes, and wearing a shirt with nudity on it. They'll defend what they do on the idea that it's someone's "right" or "expression," as if they do what they do for some lofty philosophical reason. What everyone else sees is a person who is not in control of themselves or their vices, in fact, someone who views their vices as a good thing.